Why Most New Year’s Resolutions Don’t Stick (And How to Make Yours Last)

The concept of new beginnings is both beautiful and alluring. It’s a chance to leave behind what no longer serves us and step into a new chapter with the hope of something better. That’s why the start of a new year feels so symbolic—it’s a blank slate, perfect for ambitious resolutions to improve our lives.

But here’s the truth: most of those lofty goals fizzle out fast. Research shows that only about 9% of Americans stick to their New Year’s resolutions beyond the first few months and most fall apart within weeks. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t make resolutions; it means that habit formation is hard. Our brains aren’t wired to easily let go of old habits or adopt new ones overnight.

So, what does it take to succeed? If your resolution for 2025 is to improve your balance, get in shape, or reduce your fall risk, you’re in the right place. Let’s dive into the science of habit-forming and how you can make meaningful changes that last.

The Secret to Lasting Habits: Identity Over Goals

Habits are deeply tied to our identity. If you keep telling yourself, “I have terrible balance,” you’re reinforcing that belief, making it harder to change. The key isn’t just focusing on what you want to achieve but on who you want to become. For example, instead of saying, “I want better balance,” try, “I am someone who moves mindfully and confidently.”

By aligning your actions with your desired identity, you’re more likely to create habits that stick.

Understanding the Habit Loop

Habits become automatic through repetition. But to break bad habits or form new ones, you first need to understand the habit loop:

• Cue: What triggers the behavior?

• Craving: What need or desire drives the behavior?

• Response: What action do you take?

• Reward: What benefit do you get?

Here’s an example: If you habitually bend forward when you walk, your cue might be the act of walking, your cravingcould be relief from fatigue or pain, your response is bending forward, and your reward is less muscle strain or discomfort.

To change this habit, you need to interrupt the loop. Start by noticing when and why you bend forward. Then, actively correct your posture by looking at your reflection in a mirror or window. Practice walking upright and observe how it makes you feel—more confident, stable, and balanced. Over time, this mindful approach can make good posture automatic.

Mindfulness: The Foundation of Habit Change

Breaking old habits and forming new ones requires mindfulness. Instead of moving through life on autopilot, bring awareness to your actions. For example:

• If you feel light-headed when getting up too quickly, pause and rise slowly. Over time, this mindful adjustment can prevent balance issues.

• If you struggle with incontinence and often don’t make it to the restroom in time, create a new habit by setting an alarm to remind you to go every 2–3 hours. The reward? Fewer accidents and greater confidence in social settings.

Mindfulness also applies to everyday activities like sitting, standing, and walking. Pay attention to your posture and movements, especially when you feel off balance. By consistently practicing mindfulness, you’ll rewire your brain and body to adopt healthier patterns.

Why Support Makes All the Difference

Big changes are easier when you don’t go it alone. Whether it’s a friend, coach, or community, having someone to hold you accountable can significantly boost your chances of success. If better balance is your goal in 2025, I can help.

At Better Balance For Seniors, I’ve created a Fall Prevention Program designed to improve balance, reduce fall risk, and shift your mindset. My program combines expert guidance with actionable strategies to help you achieve lasting results. For those who thrive with more personalized support, I also offer 1-on-1 coaching and group coaching options. As an occupational therapist and certified fall prevention specialist, I have the tools you need to make your resolution a reality.

Start Your Journey Today

Breaking bad habits and forming new ones isn’t impossible, but it does take intention and effort. With the right mindset and support, you can make 2025 the year you achieve your goals and improve your quality of life.

If you’re ready to take the next step, join the Fall Prevention Program or email me at [email protected]. Let’s make your New Year’s resolution one of the rare few that lasts. Happy New Year!

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